Does the word overwhelmed often describe how you feel?
Is there not enough time in the day to get it all done?
Do you feel like communication is difficult with your child?
Are you worried that your family is not as healthy as it could be?
If you answered yes to any of these questions find out what you can do to make positive changes in your life and the life of your child with parent coaching!
Get respect from your child immediately and end negative behaviors for good
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Looking for advice on all these issues. Mainly on Sibling Rivalry. I think it’s awesome
that you replied. Great to know we are not alone in this journey. Looking forward to your positive feedback.
admin Reply:
April 23rd, 2011 at 4:15 am
Hi Katrina,
I will do my very best to help answer everyone’s questions. I have a free Special Report coming out soon and I can send it to you, just fill out your information where it prompts free report sign up. It covers all of these issues… Afte that, let me know if there is more I can do for you individually. Parent Coaching may just be the answer!
Best of luck!
I saw your website from the Mopsnext facebook page. I need some help with my 6 year old son. He is well-behaved and good at school, however is the exact opposite at home. I have tried everything I could think of so far: time-out, psychologist, ignoring, talking to him about expectations, posting house rules where he can see them, an “x-chart” where he gets “x’s” when misbehaves and at 3 x’s he will get punished. I’ve also tried “Total Transformation” (not sure if you’ve heard of it). I am just at a wits end, there really isn’t any one trigger, he just seems to BLOW UP at random things. His tantrums typically are over not getting what he wants or doing what he wants, but those “gimmes/wants” are not always the same and are not consistent. These tantrums can result in hitting, throwing, kicking, biting, pinching, etc, as well as verbal disrespect and obsenities. He also needs to be “nagged” all the time to complete homework, get ready in the morning, chores, to do anything, etc…
Please help!! What can you suggest to help me get back the peace we used to have years ago???
admin Reply:
April 23rd, 2011 at 4:26 am
Hi Jen,
Thanks for contacting me! I have three suggestions for you!
First, you can do this asap. Get a copy of The Explosive Child by Ross Greene. It is very helpful and I highly recommend it!
Second, sign up for my Free Report listed on the website. It has all of the information listed and I know will be helpful to you.
Lastly, consider Parent Coaching with me. I have a new client that bought the “Total Transformation” and stated to me in our first session she realized she needed coaching all along, that program did not work for her either!
Best of luck Jen, I’m here for you!!
Paula~
Jen Reply:
April 25th, 2011 at 3:33 pm
Paula,
I am reading the book now and ordered your special report you suggested.
Can you tell me about parent coaching, exactly what is it and explain what it
can do so that I can consider it.
Thanks
Jen
admin Reply:
April 28th, 2011 at 3:21 am
Hi again Jen,
Glad you found the book. My report is coming out soon- a lot of it is based on the book so you will find it to be a reinforcement.
Parent Coaching is a partnership between the parent and coach to work together on obstacles and create some goals that are very achieveable and created by the parent. The Coach’s role is merely support and guidance as a cheerleader, confidant and friend. The Coach will also gently encourage and guide, but with permission however, from the parent. A typical coaching relationship can be from 3-6 months and even longer if desired. Coaching is done mainly over the telephone at the convenience of the parent and around his or her schedule. Typical sessions are held once a week and last about 45 or 50 minutes in length.
Traditional coaching (business models) can be extremely expensive so Parent Coaching is different in that we try to offer different services to accommodate the needs of families. In the future I will be offering tele-seminars where a group of people can call in and get coached on a certain topic and it would be greatly discounted. Skyping is also an option for those who have it, and would appreciate a more personal experience.
As you can see there are a lot of different components. I hope I have answered most of your questions. If you would like to contact me for more information or the costs of coaching, feel free to let me know and I will get with you individually.
Best of luck, and I hope to hear back from you about how it is going!
Paula, I stumbled on this through our gorgeous sister. I’m going to bookmark it. We’ve had so many changes and challenges in the last few years that have wreaked havoc with our family. It felt like you were describing me!! I was going to try the Total Transformation too it was given to me a few years ago…. but have mixed feelings about the advertising I’ve seen on it. Though my oldest after seeing the commercial looked at me and said ” Mom, why don’t you try that with me?” That bothered me!!!! I signed up for you reports already.
admin Reply:
April 28th, 2011 at 2:55 am
Hi Dorie!!
Jen told me about Kevin leaving this year. You deffenitely have your hands full! I am so glad that Seth is no longer in the Army and away… I almost believe parenting is triple the work for a military spouse!!
FYI- the reports will be sent out shortly… just finishing up editing… Thanks for looking me up!!
Take Care!
Paula
The statements from parents and your replies are great. They are so honest. I think we are in an era where parenting is harder than it has ever been before with all children with all abililities. We must provide for them the needs that will guide them into becoming responsible adults and we do not have life time to do it. I am enrolling in every class that I can afford because I believe I have great experience in playing to these children’s needs. They need our undivided attention to their individual needs. These children are unique in their own way and they are duplicated. I believe all parents hold the key. They must guided to their uniqueness so their children will know they are their best friends. A parent should want to be their child’s best friend first and then they must be transform that friendship into tough love.
admin Reply:
May 6th, 2011 at 2:02 am
Hi Elizabeth,
I commend you for wanting to be involved in helping children with unique/special needs! It is hard work and sometimes exhausting, but you are very right, the parents hold the key… the hard part is to get that key to work in a penutbutter and jelly filled lock! Sometimes parents break the key trying to open it- other times, they take out all the cleaners in the world and “de-grease” the lock only to find if they turned the key the other direction it would have worked even though it had pb&j on it!!
Using our own skills and abilities as parents is not always enough… sometimes it just takes someone else to help us see another way of making it work, before we get that it may just take a village….. Now that IS something we dont do enough in this day and age… rely on help from others! Why is that????